Describe the normal week
Set out childcare tasks, start and finish times, evening babysitting, household tasks and how changes are communicated.
Agree living and financial terms
Include the room, meals, allowance, payment method, transport, course arrangements and any costs that either side pays.
Plan for changes
Include notice, time off, holidays, illness and the first step for resolving a disagreement. Official legal requirements always take priority over a private agreement.
Before you decide
Do not rely on a single informal source for terms that could affect your legal status, safety or finances. Check the current official information and ask the family for concrete answers in writing.
Useful next steps
- Compare the country guides that fit your language and practical needs.
- Prepare questions for a video call with the family.
- Keep copies of your agreement, insurance details and emergency contacts.