Ask for a typical week
Request concrete details about children, school runs, childcare hours, evenings, transport and household tasks.
Use a video call
Speak with both adults where possible, see the room you would use and ask how the family handles changes or misunderstandings.
Confirm the agreement
Put the schedule, living arrangements, time off, allowance and any driving expectations into a written agreement before you travel.
Before you decide
Do not rely on a single informal source for terms that could affect your legal status, safety or finances. Check the current official information and ask the family for concrete answers in writing.
Useful next steps
- Compare the country guides that fit your language and practical needs.
- Prepare questions for a video call with the family.
- Keep copies of your agreement, insurance details and emergency contacts.